Most men don't know the answer to that question because most women don't like asking for what they really want in bed. Sadly and many women in relationships aren't being satisfied orally by their man. Women want oral sex maybe more than men do. There are a lot of women whose pussies aren't being licked as often as they like. The mere thought of asking a man for oral is seen as being too aggressive so waiting for him to do so is usually what happens. Unless the girl is fortunate enough to have a guy who enjoys licking pussy as much as or more than she enjoys getting it licked.
You have some men who either don't like doing it or don't know how his making his bedmate miserable although she is probably sucking him off on a daily basis with no reciprocation. To that I say, ladies speak up for your vagina. Any man that has a problem going down on you doesn't deserve to dive inside of your pool either. If he can't put his mouth on it then why bother. Head is universal and to get it from a guy as often as you'd like you must speak up about it. Not in a rude or raunchy way though, although some guys are turned on by dirty talk (those guys usually don't have a problem eating pussy)... Most like subtle hints i.e. while foreplay is in full effect, you can just put your pussy in his face and if he doesn't get the hint to do his duty then politely command him "lick that pussy." No horny guy is going to tell you no especially while getting inside you is on the line. He is going to comply whether he enjoys doing it or not.
There are also men who don't give oral at all. They don't believe in it or are afraid that they can't get it right. To them I say get a clue or admit that you are a pillow bitter. There is nothing more selfish than a man who won't give head. The only thing you can do with this man is get him acclimated to clit kissing, suffer and go without being orally satisfied, or ditch the self centered bastard and find a guy who is willing to satisfy your needs. As for the guy who is insecure about his lip service, you can work with him. Show him that you like it and teach him how to increase his skill level with games such as "Spell My Name" and "Tootsie Roll". A man willing to learn the trade is definitely worth teaching it to and you'll both have fun in the process. And teacher be sure to reward the pupil for his good behavior.
Building your confidence to ask a man for what you want isn't really that hard. Unless you are truly a prude, you should be comfortable talking to your man about anything especially when it comes to your sex life. I never understand the type of woman who is more comfortable talking about her sex life with her girlfriends than she is with her guy. If you don't think he is open to this type of communication then you may want to rethink the entire relationship.
Sex is very important to the intimacy of a relationship and being comfortable enough to discuss your needs will show him that he can also be comfortable expressing his to you. If don't know how to approach it the best time is while you are both in the heat of the moment, you just ask him to take the trip down south. There's no doubt that he'll do it. If he ignores you, that should be considered a red flag. Other ways of tackling the issue is by watching a flick together which has a hot oral scene and you can mention how great it feels when he does it to you or how hot you get after getting oral; he'll get the hint. A man that is too selfish to give you head is a man that needs to be alone, or as I stated earlier with another dude.
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