How to Enjoy Giving Your Guy Oral Sex

Most women don't like to give head for plenty of reasons. The number one reason guys say (and I stress "say) they cheat is due to lack of oral satisfaction from their woman. We need to tackle this issue because if you don't like doing it, it shows therefore making the experience less pleasing to your guy. Giving head may not be at the top of your list, but it should be a bedroom priority. Giving a man head is something that can be intimidating and for some women disgusting. So I am going to talk you through a few things: Mental preparation, physical techniques as well visual stimuli that can be used to help you get him off.

First things first, if you don't like giving head, you are not alone lots of women don't like to or refuse to do it at all. If you are not willing to try it you are very selfish. Think about how you'd feel if your guys was saying "ewww" and looking disgusted while giving you oral. Or if he told you he wouldn't do it. You'd be pretty insecure about your V-Jay or your sex life not to mention it'd turn you off. So imagine how your disgusted facial expressions and childish attitude may effect your dude, trust me it's not arousing. You have to treat dick sucking like a job that pays well, whether you like it or not, you benefit largely from it when your performance is outstanding (if you don't, you are sexing with the wrong man... a good man appreciates some good head)

Mentally prepare yourself, look at it often. Make yourself aware of it's length and width. Give him a hand job... touch it, stroke it watch that penis as it becomes hard. Get really up close and personal during the hand job, you want to get used to the way it smells as well (hopefully your guys has good hygiene) everyone has a smell about them especially during arousal. Pay attention to what he likes, this will help when you are ready to take the dive. While giving him that hand job imagine how great he feels inside of you, pay attention as you stroke him and notice how the size and length changes during different points of arousal. You will soon begin to notice that the tip is sensitive to your touch. You may even become aroused yourself. If you have never given head or haven't done it many times, you should give these therapeutic hand jobs often to get acquainted with his penis. After a few hand sessions, tease him during the next hand job by making circles with your tongue around the tip and "mushroom" shaped area, get used to placing your tongue and lips around it. He will enjoy the surprise guest. His pleasure should arouse you, if you are not moist then continue to do this every now and then until you are.

Once you are used to the look, feel and initial taste of the dick you are ready to move on to the oral part. While giving him a hand job that includes your surprise guest, take this time to go further than the tip, lick the entire length of the penis as if it's his tongue, very slow and make a little eye contact... not too much though your focus has to be the dick. See how he responds with anticipation, continue licking until his penis is at it's peak. Isn't it sexy to see how big it is all because you licked it, doesn't it turn you on just knowing you have the power to please your man with more than just your coochie?

Once you get your power rush you are ready to put him inside of your mouth and remember those things you did while using your hand. You went up and down, do not try to put the whole thing in your mouth; it is too early for you and you may ruin all of your mental preparation especially if he is big and you gag. Take your time, it's not a contest and he is just going to be happy you are doing it. It is not expected of you to stay down there forever so relax and continue to visualize how good this dick is when it's inside of you and remember that saliva helps, it will help to keep him aroused and keep your lips from chapping during the session. Be sexy by moaning and using your hands to give attention to the rest of him i.e. his thighs, chest, balls and stomach. He is bound to join in and caress your hair, shoulders or breasts depending on what's within his reach. You can do this for a few minutes and trust me he'll be glad you tried it.
Note: if he pushes your head down to get in deeper and you don't like it: discontinue the head. He'll be sure not to do it the next time you decide to give him oral.

When you start to practice this orientation head after a while you may find yourself enjoying it, you may even join in by masturbating as you suck his dick, it is a great way to connect his pleasure with your own and he'll enjoy the view. Making eye contact is necessary but not during the entire process. He wants to look at you and he's more comfortable doing so when you are focused on pleasing him, not watching his :O faces. Once you have this down and you begin to get used to giving him head, you should be ready to go all the way. You should be ready to suck him until he reaches orgasm. First thing's first consistency. You must be prepared to use the same tongue/mouth motions because like the clitoris once it's ready to :O the motion needs to be swift, steady and slippery. Keep in mind that your mouth is like the vagina during oral and you need to be moving up and down on the dick, you may include your hands into the motion to add pressure for his pleasure. Saliva or moisture is also a necessity, you don't want to use lube unless it's flavored. We personally don't like the way any lube tastes and saliva works the best because it's already in your mouth. Pay close attention to the nuts and legs, when they become stiff and drawn in it's show time. Don't get to geeked, it may be a womp womp so keep going at your same pace until the :O appears. Swallowing is for the truly freaky and is completely up to you. If you are not a swallower (us either sorry but we just can't) you may want to let him know before going down there so that you guys have a signal for you to move before he cums. You may also catch it in your mouth and discreetly get rid of it afterward.

TIPS FOR INCREASING YOUR DESIRE TO SUCK IT:
Masturbate without orgasming before going down on him. It will create anticipation and you'll already be aroused and ready for some action.

Using your breasts. Place him inside your cleavage (don't forget the lube to avoid chaffing) and move your twins up and down the length of his dick it will feel good to both of you and he'll enjoy the view.

Asking him to play with or lick your pussy while you give him oral.

Playing a flick loudly while you are going down on him the moans may help to get you in the mood.

*This is only advice for women who are in a relationship with a man whom they love enough to learn to satisfy orally. If you are only involved in a booty call he is not worth giving good head or any head to IMO